September was a truly historic month. There can be no one on the planet who is unaware that Queen Elizabeth II, Britain's longest serving monarch, died on September 8th after 70 years selfless devotion to the country. King Charles III certainly has a hard act to follow.
Only two days before the Queen died, her last official engagement, at Balmoral in Scotland, was an audience to receive the resignation of the disgraced Prime Minister Boris Johnstone and to officially appoint his successor, Liz Truss, the UK's 3rd female Prime Minister. Bizarrely, for a PM who had been ousted in disgrace, Johnson had spent the first week of the month on a "Farewell Tour" of the UK, highlighting his many "achievements".
On the day that the new PM was announced Barbara and I were on our way to a nostalgic safari in northern Tanzania, followed by a few days in Zanzibar. On our return we wondered if we should have emigrated to Tanzania, as the new Chancellor Kwasi Kwarteng set out his mini-budget of draconian tax cuts, in which 5% of the richest tax payers will receive 45% of the benefits, and the poorest very little, all at a time when many are suffering badly due to the cost of living crisis.
On the 26th Barbara had major surgery, and now she is convalescing at home for a few months, with me as her carer, learning new skills completely foreign to me, such as cooking, washing and other domestic chores.
A very memorable month.
Let me wish Barbara a very speedy recovery--blessings
ReplyDeleteKeep your spirits up (all kinds in all forms)Barry--all on all fronts would be back to happiness
Many thanks TC. Barbara greatly appreciates your comment.
DeleteAnd the same from me, Barry. Best wishes to Barbara.
ReplyDeleteBTW, the yellow gloves don't suit you, try pink!
Regards,
Sam Wood
CSM 1983
Thanks Sam. She appreciates your best wishes. Tried my pink gloves, but they clashed with the red wine
DeleteIs it my imagination based on what I see or is that the first time that you have actually held those working tools in your hands?
ReplyDeleteSince Donna’s surgery last year I have had to up my game in those areas as well.
It is good of you to share that view of real life. Sometimes we can feel alone because we do not understand what real life looks like.
Best regards to you both and a speedy recovery for Barbara.
John
John Starkey, Starkey & Associates, Canada
Good to hear from you, John.
DeleteYes, those tools are completely alien to me, but not the wine glass! However, I now know how to poach an egg, which is a good start.
Looking forward to seeing you and Donna in Cape Town, if not in Denver.
Hi Barry, I am so sorry to read about Barbara's illness. Please wish her a speedy recovery from me.
ReplyDeleteWe have certainly taken a few knocks recently. Rosemary and I with our two daughters Linda and Sarah were in the Lake District on holiday when the Queen died. We were due to return on the 19 September but cut the holiday short so that we could be back for the funeral.
Then we learned of the death of Len Mabson who had been a loyal supporter of the Cornish Institute of Engineers, being President from 1995 to 1998, when he came back from a working life on the Zambian copper belt. Len had a stroke in 2012 which stopped him from coming to CIE events and he died at the age of 92 preceded by his wife Margaret in 2018. Fellow CIE colleagues Dave and Di Chilcott attended Len's funeral yesterday (30/9) in Camelford Methodist Chapel where Len had been a minister. He had a good send off.
After Len came the news of Tony Batchelor which was so unexpected, him being only one year older than me. I knew Tony mainly from the Sundowners and my various involvements with CSM. Tony always had time for a chat although I was never eminent in any of my fields of employment like so many at the Sundowners.
I think the less said about the performance of the new Government except that the new PM and her Chancellor may be remembered for the shortest job tenure in British history!
Best Wishes to All,
Steve
Many thanks for your kind thoughts, Steve. Barbara appreciates them a great deal. She is recovering well after the operation.
DeleteHi Barry, I have just read with shock that Barbara had major surgery soon after your return from a fabulous and commemorative visit to Tanzania. Helen and I wish her a full and speedy recovery. Your blog suggests that it will take some time for Barbara to recover. Although most of us modern men are competent executing domestic duties, it impacts on work productivity. I had two periods of such domestic duties with Helen’s extensive dual shoulder surgery a few years ago, and felt the strain in attending to normal business as well, despite hiring cleaners to assist. Such periods of medical incapacitation remind us that we have to live life to the fullest and enjoy every day as if it is one’s last. I think both of us have always had that philosophy. It is such a blessing that you and Barbara have been able to complete and enjoy the Tanzanian trip, going back on the old tracks of 51 years ago. Best wishes to Barbara for her recovery, and to you as her carer and domestic manager (hopefully a temporary appointment). Jannie van Deventer, Melbourne
ReplyDeleteMany thanks Jannie. We really appreciate your comments. Spent some time shopping in the supermarket this morning, which was a new experience for me!
DeleteDear Barry and Barbara,
ReplyDeleteLovely pics of your travels abroad, not to mention the fetching photos today.
We were thinking of you last Saturday when we popped in to visit Graham and Sheila in Ashby de la Zouch after taking our eldest daughter to Heathrow - she works and lives in Cape Town at the moment. Please pass on our best wishes to Barbara, and gripping the vacuum cleaner doesn't constitute coming to grips with the domestic chores! 🙂,
Stay well and hope to see you in the near future,
Bob & Debbie White, Worksop, UK
Many thanks Bob & Debbie. Hope to catch up when we are next in Worksop
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